Do We Have to Think Alike to Be in Harmony?

I love them for it. Now this may seem like a hard position to take but it is actually the easiest and the one that will always get the best response from the other person.

Most of the time someone is being negative towards you because of how their life experience has caused them to define you and your actions.

For example: if you are a girly girl who likes to takes pictures and embrace her beauty alot, and someone who has always felt rejected or disintrest from women like that may just automatically look at you and find you to be something negative in their minds.

This has nothing to do with you and you also can not change what momentum they have behind thinking those thoughts about people like you.

But one thing you can always do is love them exactly because they are that way. Not so they will change but because you will not change for them.

When someone is resistant towards you, the worst thing you could do is try even harder to be resistant against them.

It sounds crazy to pull someone in closer that is thinking negatively about you but they will be surprised by the way you make them feel about their own beliefs when you allow them to have them and accept them fully

My favorite way to address someone who is attacking or trying to be negative towards me is: I am so happpy that you have this point of view because it is so different than mine. And listen, if we all thought the same way this place would be soooooo dull! I love the variety this place has to offer and I wouldn't change your perspective for all the money in the world because you have lived your whole life so far and I have only experienced a little bit of your world and I appreciate being able to experience a little bit more variety in this infinite universe.

They will be so accepting of everything you said that there is no more resitence.

If someone pushes against you and you pull them in they can only keep their groundings if they release their resistence and pull you in too.

You can't argue with perspective, everyone has one and chooses what they want to see when they experience something, but you can change your perspective of others with ease and it makes a world of difference

I think the way we react to how people react to us could always be more unconditional becauase again if we all thought the same way this place would be a snore fest :P

PS: Love them unconditionally and allow them to have their point of view, allow yourself to see it as valid in their lives, even if you do not agree, it is never your journey to understand someone elses life. We all have a journey and if you try and assert your point of views and try to change theirs you just causing more of a mess. Trust that your own guidance has led you in the right direction and so will theirs in their own time